Update

NOTE: This is an archive post from LiveJournal which has been logged here for posterity. The original post was friends-locked.

First of all thank you to everyone who has offerred advice. It seems the general concensus is that I'm not immagining this and this woman is a nutter.

I've had a bit of a chat to A about it all - seems he's seeing it as well and is on my side, which is always helpful in these things :)

Some of my favourite quotes/advice are below;


Can you talk to the hostel management? - colitis.

GROW SOME BALLS!

Don't talk about yourself the way you have done in the email you just sent me, if you carry on doing that you will become your own worst enemy! For one anyone who can't except you as you are has a problem and it's not yours so let them deal with it! If you are saying things like you have done in your email about yourself and you're not happy then do something about it! If people pick up on the fact that you're not happy about yourself they will play on it and use it against you!

My advice, make the most of your life, don't get hung up with people that aren't going to do you any good, are these people going to help you in life? do you need them? Cut out the baggage!

- Chari

it sound like you have a crazy woman on your tail. personally i think if she is firting with i guy who is 11yrs younger than her she needs help!!! i think you need to be up front with her and tell her to back off from you and that you will contact her when you want to talk to her, if i was up in auckland i would come and kick her arse!!! - RainbowBright

I will definately be keeping you all updated however. :)